there's lot of dramas, novels talked about marriage. lebih-lebih lagi sekarang. serius ramai kot teenager@youngster sebaya umur aku or a bit younger than me have MARRIED. excited huh? ngee. jodoh dah sampai, alhamdullilah. syukur.
just then i caught up something that makes me annoyed. no, its not about marriage, the whole thing in it. it's just people tend to talk so much about bakal imamku, bakal ayah kepada anak-anakku. women does that a lot. trust me~
a good example. Dena Bahrin. i adore her so much. since she's not a mum yet. i'm not stating her as bad example or what. no. the way she dress is a part of what we called as dakwah. once in usrah, mak usrah kami bagitau. antara cara dakwah paling dekat dengan kita ialah cara kita bercakap dan cara kita berpakaian. need more details? then read more :)
she got to be a mum in same age as me. 20. a mum and a wife. then after that, so many youngster got married. i got friends of me in semenanjung, kawan masa sekolah menengah dah kahwin. manusia mudah sangat terpengaruh. bukan aku nak cakap sahabat aku yang dah kahwin tu terpengaruh dgn Dena or what. no, dont get me wrong.
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#dena bahrin and his husband#
kenapa kawan kita dah kahwin? kenapa kita tak? sedang kita nie sebaya je. well people, destiny is not in your hand. means that Allah dah tetapkan soal jodoh ajal maut kita. cemburu melihat orang lain dengan kehidupan mereka sedang Allah dah meletakkan yang terbaik untuk kita. kita tak menghadapi semua itu sebab kita belum bersedia. bukan kita tak well-qualified, cuma masa itu belum sampai lagi.
ALLAH knows us very well, very detail. dalam menunggu itu, ALLAH nak tengok macam mana kita handle something. DIA menilai kita, adakah kita lebih mengejar cinta ALLAH atau cinta manusia. everything. HE hold it first just to test you, to strengthen you. and so why need to be worry so much? it just that we haven't prepare for it yet~
hati, kalau terlalu cenderung mencintai manusia, takut melebihi kecenderungan mencintai Pencipta manusia itu sendiri. berhati-hati dalam soal hati. aku hairan bilamana manusia sering mengaitkan sesuatu perkara dengan nilai sebuah perkahwinan. sampaikan kalau dah selalu sakit-sakit pun kena relate dengan kahwin. er? perlukah sampai tahap itu?
we only see the best part of it only just because we are too eager to know about life of married people. that's us. terlalu mencari, menatap kesenangan hidup insan lain. boleh, kiranya itu sebagai batu loncatan untuk kita lebih tekun berusaha tapi kiranya dah tahap melebih-lebih, it can make people annoy and pissed off with you~
we got lot more things to do besides to think about kahwin. but for now, buat yang masih belajar, masih mengadap nota, assignment, reports and so on. fokus pada yang tu dulu. pray for your jodoh as well. we need to put effort in it right? but dont over exaggerate about it.
aku bukanlah nak cakap aku nie anti-kahwin or what. nooo~ just that i get annoy easily when it always been the main topic. tipu sangat-sangat kalau aku takpenah cakap-cakap hal tu. then i'm pissed off with myself. pfft~~we cant always talk about it. no, dont too concentrated on it. tak salah kalau nak bercerita sebab itu pun dikira future planning kita. cuma jangan berlebihan~
just be moderate people. bukankah bersederhana itu lebih baik? wait people, your turn will be there soon. for now, let's fix ourself, soul and heart for ALLAH.
istighfar banyak-banyak. jaga amal kita kerana ALLAH :)
an nur:32
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#maria elena's wedding picture#
#anonymous. matching colour cantek#
#irma hasmie wedding picture#
p/s - gambar hiasan semata-mata.
